Obituaries from the Dec. 16, 2021 Issue

Barnett, Al

Al Barnett, 89, passed away on Dec. 5, 2021 at his residence in Woodbridge. Born in New Haven on February 22nd, 1932, son of the late Samuel and Ida (Spector) Barnett. Predeceased by his wife of 55 years Margaret and son James. Father of David (Betsy) Barnett of Libertyville, Illinois, and Caroline Barnett, of New Haven. Granddaughters Meg, Annie, and Ellie. Al attended New Haven Public Schools and graduated from the University of New Haven. A veteran of the Korean Conflict, Al was discharged as a 1st Sergeant in 1954. Al was a stock car race driver in the 1950s and 1960s at local speedways, and he served as a police officer for over 30 years with the New Haven and Yale University Police Departments.

Funeral services will be held at Workman’s Circle Cemetery, 50 Farwell St. West Haven, CT. on Thursday December 9th at 12:00 noon. The Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home, New Haven is in care of Arrangements. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit; www.shurefuneralhome.com.

Becker, John E.

John Eugene Becker passed away peacefully after a long illness on November 19, 2021. He is survived by his beloved wife, Carol Waldmann Becker, and his three cherished sons: John Becker of Burlington, VT, Greg Becker (Jane) of Fairfield, CT, and Jason Becker (Caroline) of Easton, CT, as well as eight grandchildren who brought him so much joy: Katherine and Ella Becker, Natalie, Matthew, Daniel and Emily Becker, and Lillian and Victoria Becker. John was born on February 13, 1937, in Milford, CT, the younger brother of Louella Nicolari (deceased), Virginia White (Annapolis, Maryland), Joseph Becker (Cohasset, MA) and the older brother of Jerome Becker (deceased) and James Becker (Milford). He is also survived by many nieces and nephews. In his youth, he developed a love of sports, particularly basketball, and made a lifelong friend in Alphonse Russo. After graduating from Milford High School, he enlisted in the army and served in Africa for two years. Upon his return home, he enrolled at Southern Connecticut State University where he met Carol, the love of his life. They were married in June of 1964. After briefly working as a teacher, John began working at his father-in-law’s business, Anton Waldmann and Associates in College Point, Queens, and remained there for the rest of his career. The family is grateful for the loving care John received at Maefair in Trumbull for the last five months of his life and for the compassionate care he received from Vitas (hospice). Friends and family may pay their respects on December 12 at Spear Miller Funeral Home at 39 South Benson Road in Fairfield from 1-4 p.m. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made the Beth-El Center at 90 New Haven Avenue in Milford, Connecticut, where John volunteered in the soup kitchen for many years. For information or to leave an online condolence, please visit www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com.

Brennan, Richard James

Richard James Brennan, age 71, of Milford, beloved husband of Nancy (Rothwell) Gorban-Brennan, died on Monday, Nov. 15, 2021. Richard was born in Bridgeport on April 14, 1950 to the late Arthur and Ida (Gellatly) Brennan. Richard was a proud US Navy Vietnam veteran and served on the USS Sanctuary. He worked as a Laboratory Facilities Manager for many years and was a member of both the Milford Elks Lodge #1589 and New Haven Elks Lodge #25. He was also a proud member of the American Legion, East Shore Post #196 and enjoyed camping in Vermont, flyfishing and woodworking. He will be deeply missed by his large family, many friends and his dog, Maggie Mae.

In addition to his wife, survivors include his children, Corianne Brennan, Arthur Richard (Amanda) Brennan, Jennifer Jageler (David) and Aaron Gorban (Nicole), five grandchildren; Louis and Troy Brennan, Jared and Sarah Jageler and Lily Gorban, his brothers and sisters: Daniel Brennan, Loretta Boss (Kyle), Barbara Haberman (Howard), Susan Walkley (Tim), John Brennan (Deborah), Jim Brennan and Alice Cuevas (Tony) and several nieces and nephews. Richard is predeceased by his brother, Arthur R. “Corky” Brennan.

Friends are invited to greet the family on Friday, Nov. 19th from 10:30 to 11:00 a.m. at Saint Peter’s Episcopal Church, 71 River Street, with a Mass of Requiem at 11:00 a.m. Interment with Military honors to follow in Kings Highway Cemetery, Milford. To share a memory, please visit www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Callan, John Joseph Sr.

John Joseph Callan, age 97 of Milford beloved husband of the late June (Dingwall) Callan, entered peaceful rest on December 2, 2021.

He was born on March 21, 1924, in Brooklyn, NY and was the son of the late Hugh John and Margaret “Madge” (Darcy) Callan. Mr. Callan was a U.S. Naval Reserve veteran, served in WWII and continued to serve for many years. He volunteered with the Boys Scouts, Girl Scouts and Civil Defense. He was an avid scuba diver, camper, woodworker and world traveler.

Mr. Callan is survived by his loving children, Jamie (June-Marie) Callan, her husband William Thompson and John Callan, his wife, Susan Callan, four grandchildren, seven great grandchildren and his devoted companion, Beverly Mae Aker of Lexington, MA. He was predeceased by his six brothers and sisters.
Services will be held in private. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD.

Carboni, Carol Kelly

Carol Kelly Carboni, age 81, devoted and loving mother and grandmother passed away peacefully on November 20, 2021, with her loving family by her side. Carol was born on December 19, 1939 to the late Walter A. and Jennie (Palcovich) Kelly. She attended St. Lawrence School and graduated from West Haven High School in 1957. Carol eloped with the love of her life, Larry Carboni, who preceded her in death in 1993. She and Larry raised their family in West Haven and Orange, but Carol was always a true Westie at heart. Besides her husband, she was predeceased by her brother, Joseph F. Kelly, and her sister, Kathleen T. Kelly. Carol was loved and will be truly missed by her children, Susan Carboni, with whom she resided, Larry (Kathy) Carboni, Mary Ellen (Jeremy) Stewart, and her beloved grandchildren whom she adored and was so proud of; Lexi and Michael Stewart, and Shannon and Lauren Carboni. She is also survived by her aunts, Mary and Regina, her sister in law, Maureen Kelly, nieces, nephews, many cousins and friends. Carol started her career at Yale New Haven Hospital, worked in real estate and then as a dental assistant until her retirement. Carol was happiest when she was cooking and entertaining for friends and family. She created a loving home where all were welcome, young and old, any time. She enjoyed reading, being by the ocean, traveling, shopping, seeing her friends at Mike’s and Biagettis, family dinners on Sundays, and spending time with her special cousin, Brian Kelly. Carol was a strong, kind, fiercely independent soul who will be sadly missed, but never forgotten.

Visitation will be held on Saturday, November 27, 2021, from 8:30-10:30 am at West Haven Funeral Home at the Green. Her funeral procession will leave the funeral home on Saturday morning at 10:30 for a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated in Holy Infant Church Orange, at 11am. Interment will follow in Orange Center Cemetery. Donations may be made in Carol’s name to Special Olympics Connecticut 2666 State Street Suite 1, Hamden CT 06517 or specialolympicsct@soct.org. To leave an online condolence for Carol’s family, please visit www.westhavenfuneral.com.

Counihan, John C.

John C. Counihan peacefully entered into eternal rest on Friday, 26 November 2021. John was born in the Bronx, New York on 27 November 1926 to the late John Counihan and Johanna Sullivan Counihan. He spent his early years in New York City attending Sacred Heart Grammar School in the Bronx and Power Memorial High School in Manhattan before joining the United States Navy in September 1944 at the age of seventeen. John served proudly as a Signalman during WWII Pacific Theatre Campaign in Japan and later in China before being assigned to the USS Jack W. Wilke (DE-800) an experimental antisubmarine warfare ship operating out of Key West, Florida. John was a true American Patriot who remained proud of his service to his country throughout his entire life.

Following his time in military service, John attended Champlain College in Plattsburg, New York on the GI Bill earning a Bachelors Degree in Business Administration and later earned an M.B.A. Degree from New York University (1960). John enjoyed a very long and successful career as an international production and sourcing manager for American Cyanamid/Lederle Laboratories Corporation, Richardson-Vicks, Inc., and Proctor & Gamble Corporation, traveling globally to most of the countries of Asia, S.E. Asia, Central and South America. Upon his retirement during 1993, John enjoyed fishing aboard his boat, the “Irish Reel”.

John married the love of his life, Eileen Margaret Monaghan on 9 January 1954 and enjoyed a 49-year marriage until her death during 2003. John is survived by his three children, Christopher Counihan and his wife Robin of Milford, CT; Daniel Counihan, his wife Eileen of North Wales, PA and their children Ryan Counihan and Caitlin DiPaola (Daniel); Kerry Anne Murphy and her husband K. Todd of Marshfield, MA and their children Reilly, Cassidy, Declan and Rory. John is also survived by his sister Mary Schilling of Rockaway Beach, New York. John was predeceased by his brothers, Joseph Counihan of Long Beach, NJ and Donald Counihan of Cape Coral, FL.

Family and friends are invited to pay their respects on Friday, December 3, 2021 from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 1 p.m. at St. Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT. Interment with Military Honors will be at St. Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford, CT.

Datelle, Concetta Santina “Connie” (Campus)

Mrs. Concetta Santina “Connie” (Campus) Datelle, 88, of Milford, CT and Jupiter, FL, formerly of Waterbury, entered into the Gates of Heaven on Wednesday, August 25, 2021 surrounded by her loving family. She was the wife of the late Francis T. Datelle Jr.

Concetta was born in Waterbury on October 31, 1932, daughter of the late Anthony and Angeline (Angelicola) Campus. She graduated from Leavenworth High School and earned her Nursing Degree from St. Mary’s Hospital School of Nursing. At St. Mary’s, she was renowned as a Med-Surgical and Pediatric Nurse. Later after having children, Concetta was a private duty nurse until her retirement, working exclusively for many of  Greater Waterbury and Litchfield’s prominent civic leaders and their families.

“Connie” was famous for her big, beautiful smile that could light up a dark room. She loved the ocean and was very proud for always having the best tan of anyone on the beach. With her generous and giving heart, her homes were always open to family and friends for all to enjoy her exquisite traditional Italian cuisine. She enjoyed her summers at her cottage at Bayview Beach in Milford, CT, and winters at the family home in Jupiter, Florida.

Concetta leaves to honor and cherish her memory her son, Gregory F. Datelle (Alicia) formerly of Chicago, IL; and her daughter Gayle M. Datelle-Mihalakos, and son-in-law Attorney Athan S. Mihalakos, of Waterbury and Jupiter, FL.

Concetta was predeceased by five brothers and three sisters, and is survived by one sister, Lena (Carozza) Cronin of Watertown, and several nieces and nephews.

Per Concetta’s wishes, all internment services were private. On a beautiful Saturday in September, the family held a traditional 30-day Roman Cathloic Memorial Mass in Concetta’s honor at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church in Waterbury, followed by a luncheon Repass at the Country Club of Waterbury.

Arrangements: Chase Parkway Memorial/The Albini Family Funeral Home 430 Chase Parkway Waterbury was entrusted with the arrangements, and did a magnificent job honoring Concetta’s wishes.

Memorial Contributions can be made in Concetta’s memory:
St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital
Tribute Program/P.O. Box 1000,
Dept. 142,
Memphis, TN 38148

DeLorenzo, Albert

Albert DeLorenzo, age 81, beloved husband of Lucille Palumbo DeLorenzo of Milford, passed away on Saturday, December 4, 2021 at his home with his loving family by his side. Born in Bridgeport on October 3, 1940, he was a son of the late Arthur and Mary Mastriano DeLorenzo and was a longtime resident of Bridgeport before moving to Milford.

Albert worked at Avco Lycoming for over 34 years before his retirement. He had a passion for gardening, enjoyed cooking, dancing and playing cards but his greatest enjoyment came from spending time with his family. His pride and joy were his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was a loving husband, father and grandfather and will be missed by all who knew him.

In addition to his beloved wife Lucille of 51 years, survivors include his loving sons, Marc DeLorenzo and Erica Montini and Jeffrey and Allison DeLorenzo, a brother, Thomas DeLorenzo, five grandchildren, Anthony DeLorenzo and Felicia, Nicholas DeLorenzo and Briana, Giavanna, Bella and Vincent DeLorenzo and Gianna and two cherished great-grandchildren, Mila and Alaia. He also leaves behind two sisters-in-law and two brothers-in-law, Annette and Joseph Montanaro and Alfred and Cathleen Palumbo as well as many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by brothers, John, Arthur “Jo Jo”, and Robert and sisters, Marie Rotz, Kathleen Krochko and Michele Murphy.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated directly at St. Gabriel Church, 26 Broadway, Milford, on Saturday, December 11, 2021 at 10:00 a.m. Interment will be private. Friends may greet the family on Friday from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at The Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Road, Trumbull.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 502 St. Jude Pl., Memphis, TN 38105 or at www.stjude.org. To leave an online condolence, visit us at www.abriola.com.

Dello Russo, Alfred Henry

Alfred Henry Dello Russo, 91, of Orange, beloved husband of the late Shonnie Dello Russo, passed away peacefully at home on November 14, 2021. Born on October 20, 1930, he was the son of the late Alfphonse and Mary Dello Russo.

Al proudly served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. He was a dedicated employee for 40 years at Sikorsky, retiring in 1996 as a Manufacturing Manager. Al was a member of the Milford ASA Umpire Organization for 40 years; in 1994 he was inducted into the CT Umpire Hall of Fame. In his free time, Al enjoyed watching his favorite sports: baseball and football, as well as gardening. He had a soft spot for animals of all kinds; there was never a time he didn’t have at least two cats and a dog at his house!

Al leaves behind his stepson, Dean Smith and his wife, Patricia Wynus; sister, Loretta Dugan; and many nieces, nephews, and extended family. He was predeceased by his brother, Johnny and his wife, Louise; and brother-in-law, George.

Family and friends may call on Thursday, November 18, 2021 from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. At Al’s request, the family asks that folks attending dress casually. A Graveside Service with Military Honors will take place on Friday, November 19, 2021 at 11 a.m. at Milford Side Cemetery, 1138 Racebrook Rd., Woodbridge CT (MEET DIRECTLY AT CEMETERY).  In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the CT Humane Society.

DeLuca, Diane

Diane DeLuca, 39, of Milford, passed away peacefully on Friday, November 19, 2021. Born on June 11, 1982 in Bridgeport. She was the daughter of Robin and Michael DeLuca of Milford.

Diane leaves behind her children, Kaylee DeLuca and David DeLuca; grandson, Adrian Santiago; sisters, Charlene DeLuca and Michelle DeLuca, both of Milford; as well as two nephews, Dale and Lyle and two nieces, Gia and Lily.

While Diane was a C.N.A. most of her life, her final years were spent in retail at Bob’s in Milford. She grew up in Bridgeport and attended Jonathan Law High School in Milford. Diane was always about living life to the fullest and just being happy. She was a very caring and giving person and always made you laugh. Diane will be sadly missed by all.

Friends and family may call from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Thursday, December 2, 2021 at the Cody White Funeral Home 107 Broad St., Milford, CT.

Dumont, Constance “Connie” M. (Graziano)

Constance M. Dumont, 102, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Theodore E. Dumont, passed away on December 6, 2021. Born on October 13, 1919 in Bronx, NY, she was the daughter of the late James and Frances (Patti) Graziano.

Connie was a long-time volunteer at the Beth-El Center Soup Kitchen.

Connie is survived by her children, Stephanie D. Pasacreta and James Dumont. She was predeceased by her sister, Phyllis Graziano.

All services will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Beth- El  Center 90 New Haven Ave., Milford, CT 06460.

Dupre, Eunice Marie Sylvestre

Eunice Marie Sylvestre Dupre, age 86, beloved wife of Normand George Dupre, of Woonsocket, RI, passed away peacefully Saturday, October 30, 2021, in Columbia, South Carolina. She leaves her children, Pamela Dupre Boynton of Orange, CT, Lynn Dupre Chabot and son-in-law Peter of Old Greenwich, CT, and son, Chip Dupre and daughter-in-law Jamie of Columbia, SC. She is survived by her sister, Lois Sylvestre Buzzetti and brother-in-law Tony Buzzetti of Lexington, SC, lifelong friends and loving confidants who valued years together in the Palmetto State. She is also survived by her sister-in-law Rose Sylvestre of Cumberland, RI. The nurturing and loving grandmother of 8 granddaughters. Laura, Katie, and Sally Boynton, Alexandra and Samantha Chabot, and Claire, Christa, and Colleen Dupre. Eunice was nicknamed Bopper for her engaging and doting personality. She embraced every holiday and family dinner and is lovingly remembered as the devoted core of her family.

She is predeceased by her husband Normand, parents Eileen (Cafferty) and Leon Louis Sylvestre, and brothers Richard, Donald, and Sonny Sylvestre. A graduate of Regis College, Eunice dedicated three decades of her career to elementary education, always focusing on kind and respectful behavior. An elegant woman of petite stature, Eunice also had an iron backbone, and shepherded her family through challenges big and small. Quiet, graceful, and dignified, her focus on love, integrity, and genuine kindness characterized her life as one lived with love. She will be missed every day. A private memorial service will be held in Rhode Island.

Memorial gifts in her honor may be sent to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital at stjude.org.

Feledie, Anthony James Sr.

Anthony James Feledie Sr., 31, a believer in God’s Word, a beloved husband to wife, Kayla Feledie, and Father to son, Anthony “Tony” Feledie Jr., has fallen asleep November 19th, awaiting the Lord’s return.

Born on April 11th 1990 in Norwalk, CT, son of Denise Ferris and James “Davey” Feledie III. Anthony was raised and lived in his hometown of Milford CT. He resided in Naugatuck, CT and was a skilled autobody painter by trade. He was a devoted husband and father and Christian brother to many.

Anthony was a unique, one-of-a kind individual. He had a beautiful soul that engraved on the hearts of every person who met him. Anthony loved God and his word; he was a true evangelist by nature.

Survived by wife, Kayla Feledie, son, Anthony “Tony” Feledie, mother, Denise Ferris, father, James “Davey” Feledie III, grandmother, Judy Feledie, grandfather, James “Dave” Feledie II, grandmother, Katie Ferris, sister, Claire Feledie, brother-in-law, Casey Jones, and many other dear and loved friends and family.

Friends and family may call from 4:00 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. on Tuesday, November 23, 2021 at the Cody White Funeral Home 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Memorial service will begin at 6:30 p.m. Following calling hours, friends and family are invited to an after gathering at 77 Chestnut Street, Naugatuck, CT.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to express their condolences may send donations to 77 Chestnut St., Naugatuck, CT c/o Kayla Feledie.

Foley, Ellen

Ellen Foley, age 85, of Milford, beloved wife of the late James Foley passed away peacefully on Thursday, Nov. 25, 2021 with her devoted sons and loving family by her side.

Born in 1936 in Kilwinning, Scotland, Ellen was the daughter of the late Sarah Keenan Shaw and Robert Sim Shaw. Along with her husband and sons, Gerald and Brian she immigrated to the United states and settled in Bridgeport, CT. In 1972 she moved to Milford where she has spent the last 49 years.

She was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, who cared deeply for her family. Ellen will be missed dearly by all that knew her.

She is survived by her loving sons, Gerald Foley (Joan) of Milford and Brian Foley (Sandra) of Northbrook, IL and four grandchildren, Scott Foley (Jillian), Kevin Foley (Olivia) Kyle Foley and Sarah Foley and her great grandson, Shane Foley. In addition to her husband, she was predeceased by her grandson, Shawn Foley, and her brother, Thomas Shaw and sister, Jannette Glenn.

Family and Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated on Tuesday, November 30, 2021 at 10:30 a.m. at St. Ann Church (St. Raphael Parish) 501 Naugatuck Ave. Milford. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Shawn Foley Memorial Scholarship Fund c/o Jonathan Law High School, 20 Lansdale Avenue, Milford, CT 06460. Arrangements have been entrusted with the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD.

Gaul, Rita

On November 27, 2021, Rita Gaul was received into the loving arms of Jesus. Rita was 89 years old and the wonderful mother of five children, 14 grandchildren, and 11 great grandchildren. Rita raised her family in a cozy beach neighborhood in Milford, Connecticut where she truly enjoyed hosting large outdoor barbecues with her many family members and friends and tending her rose garden. Rita worked as a Secretary and Office Manager of the family business, Gaul Construction, and was a faithful member of Berean Assembly of God Church in Milford. Upon retiring, Rita and her husband Bill moved to Port Charlotte, Florida where she made many forever friends. Rita was involved with a music ministry in her church. She loved singing in the choir and hosting Bible studies in her home. Rita traveled with her church to Jamaica to assist in the building project for housing orphan children. Rita loved to spend her time quilting and crafting. More than anything Rita loved her family and her friends. Her teachings of love kindness and integrity will be kept with us forever. She will be sadly missed and forever in our hearts.

Rita is survived by her children, Ronald Gaul and his wife Bernadette Gaul, Karen Myers, MaryEllen (Meg) Gaul and Donald Gaul; her sister, Joan McCarthy; her grandchildren, Carey Gaul, Kara Talavera and her husband Michael Talavera, Kelly Gaul, Kevin Gaul and his wife Kayla Gaul, Adam Rushworth, Daniel Gaul and his wife Megan Gaul, Samantha Gaul, Emelia Gaul, Julia Gaul, Ronald Gaul, Shawn Gaul, Kathryn Campo and her husband Brandon Campo, Carole DesOrmeau, Allison Bisceglia and her husband Christian Bisceglia and Christian Barone; her great-grandchildren, Matthew Campo, Maggie Gaul, Emily Campo, Ellie Gaul, Mason Campo, Emery Bisceglia, Rosalyn Bisceglia, Carter Gaul, Carolina Gaul, Joseph Talavera, and Oliver Talavera; and many cousins, nieces, and nephews. She is preceded in death by her husband of 57 years, William Gaul Sr.; her parents, Thomas Gallagher and MaryEllen Gallagher Jennings; her son, William Gaul Jr.; her sisters, Edna Baird, Gertrude Rodgers, Theresa Crouth, and Veronica Gallagher; and her brothers, Donald Gallagher, Thomas Gallagher, Lawrence Gallagher, Robert Gallagher, and Richard Gallagher.

A Visitation will be held on Friday, December 17th, 2021 from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass will be held on Saturday, December 18th, 2021 at 9 a.m. Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT.

Gedansky, Stanley

Stanley Gedansky, 89 of Woodbridge passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his family on November 21, 2021. Stanley was born October 25, 1932 in Bronx, NY son of the late Alex and Marilyn (Widman) Gedansky. He graduated from Roosevelt High School in Yonkers and City College of NY. He earned his PhD at Syracuse University where he met the love of his life the late Rita (Gilman) Gedansky on a blind date to a Syracuse Football game leading to an incredible 66-year marriage. Stanley was a devoted husband to Rita and together they were true partners in everything they did. The family they built was most important to Stan and despite a full work and volunteer schedule, he never missed an event that his children or grandchildren were in. He created endearing nicknames for his grandchildren who were the light of his life. Stan loved to connect with others and once you met him he considered you a friend. He was known to share a long-winded joke with his trademark chuckle at the punchline and was a master of trivia. Each evening while he and Rita watched Jeopardy, he often called out the correct answer before the contestants.

Together, Rita and Stan were long time members of the Amity Athletics Booster Club where they raised considerable funds through their renowned youth basketball tournament which they ran tirelessly for 34 years. Stan was known as the “Voice of Amity” where he served as the home football game announcer for 36 years. He was humbled to be honored with the naming of the “Stan Gedansky Press Box” at the football field. Together, their devotion to Amity Athletics was recognized with their induction into the Amity Athletics Hall of Fame. Stan had a distinguished career as an Analytical Chemist spending the majority of his years with Uniroyal Chemical retiring at the age of 72. Throughout his life Stan enjoyed a regular round of golf and played in many local and regional bridge leagues and tournaments earning the distinction of Gold Life Master. Stan and Rita loved to watch UConn Men and Women’s basketball, attending many games when they were able. A lifelong NY Giants fan, Sundays were spent watching his team.
Volunteerism was second nature for Stan and in addition to the above service he was also a founding member and longtime board member of the Woodbridge Father’s Baseball League where he coached his son’s teams for many years. After baseball season, basketball was not far behind and he coached many youth travel teams tirelessly spending his weekends traveling around the state for games. Stan was further involved in the town of Woodbridge and served many years on the Recreation commission continuing as the Chairman into his 80’s where he was an advocate for recreation programs and space to enhance the lives of town residents.

Stanley is survived by his loving children Steven Gedansky of Arlington, TX, Susan Kelly of Bethany, Matthew Gedansky of Tolland and Beth (Ken) Young of Bethany and much adored grandchildren Natalie and Rachel Gedansky, Cheyann and Dakota Kelly and Carly, Jordan and Zachary Young. In addition to his wife Rita, Stanley was predeceased by his eldest grandchild Brian Gedansky and his son-in-law Jerry Kelly. He is also survived by his brothers David Gedansky and Lewis (Joan) Gedansky of FL and his brother-in law and sister-in-law Sidney (Buddy) and Linda Gilman of Little Falls, NJ and many nieces and nephews.

We are forever grateful to his caregivers Kim, Lorraine, Danielle, Deidra, Ariane and Carmen who have provided loving care to Stan for many years enabling him to stay in his home as he wished.

Funeral Services will be held Wednesday morning November 24 at 11:00 a.m. at B’nai Jacob Memorial Park 200 Wintergreen Ave, New Haven. The Robert E. Shure & Son Funeral Home New Haven is in care of Arrangements. A scholarship in Stanley’s name has been set up to be given to a graduating senior each year. Memorial contributions can be made in his memory to Amity Regional High School, 25 Newton Road, Woodbridge, CT 06525 Attention Stanley Gedansky Scholarship. To sign an online registry book or to leave a message of condolence, please visit; www.shurefuneralhome.com.

Gintant, Walter

Walter Charles Gintant, age 94, of Milford, died on Friday, December 3, 2021 at Connecticut Hospice in Branford. He was the husband of the late Marion Andruski Gintant.

Walter was born in Bridgeport to the late Charles and Julia Gintant. Walter proudly served our country in the US Army as a Corporal during the Korean War. He then worked for many years with Nabisco Corp. in multiple roles before retiring in 1985.

Walter was a caring, sincere and well-respected person. He had an altruistic spirit and was always looking to help others in any way possible. Many local organizations benefitted from Walter’s volunteerism, including Stratford Red Cross, local Food Banks, Milford Hospital Recovery Room, the National Audobon Society and AARP Tax Services in Milford.

Survivors include a son, Gary and his wife, Maryann Gintant of Minnesota and a daughter, Lynn Gintant of Bridgeport CT; and two granddaughters Laura (Jason) Moffett and Alyssa (Dustin) Dooyema and two great grandchildren (Mathew Moffett and Nolan Dooyema). He was predeceased by a daughter, Karen Gintant.

In accordance with his wishes, a private burial with military honors was held at St. John the Baptist Cemetery, Stratford.

Goncalves, Eric Williams

Eric William Goncalves, age 32, of Milford, died on Saturday November 13, 2021. Eric was born in New Haven on September 27, 1989, to John and Laura Goncalves of Milford. Eric graduated from Foran High School and attended Housatonic Community College. He worked in manufacturing as a C&C Machinist and was previously a teacher’s assistant at Housatonic College. He was amazing at solving math problems and enjoyed working with his hands. Eric was passionate about his work. He was also an avid sports fan, loved to cook, country music, fishing, playing pool and golf. Eric loved his family very much. He had the “Best Smile” and a great sense of humor. He will be deeply missed by his family and friends. Survivors, in addition to his parents, include his brother, John M. Goncalves (Melissa) of West Haven and nephew, Jackson Goncalves and several aunts, uncles and cousins.

Friends and family are invited to call on Saturday November 20th from 9:30 a.m. – 11:30 a.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Graveside service will follow in Lawncroft Cemetery, Fairfield.  Regardless of vaccination status, masks are required. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Hayes, Richard “Rick”

Richard “Rick” A. Hayes Jr., 43, of Milford, CT passed away on Wednesday, December 1, 2021. He was born on December 19, 1977 in New Haven, CT.

He was the son of Richard and Madelyn (Stokes) Hayes. Rick attended high school at Joseph A. Foran, and is a graduate of Southern Connecticut State University. Rick loved baseball and was a very proud coach to the Connecticut Angels.

In addition to his loving parents, Rick is survived by his sister, Alycia Campbell, and his niece, Kelsey and nephew, Ryan; his aunts, Mary Lou Mayerick and Paula Griffie; uncle, Jerry Hayes; and several cousins, including Peter Stokes, Andra and Doug. Also, his “adopted” family, George Baranowsky and family, The Sauro family, and the Shea family. He also leaves his beloved dogs, LuLu and Delta, his “girls.” Lastly, Rick is predeceased by his dog, Ellie.

Friends and family may call from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Wednesday, December 8, 2021 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. After calling hours, a gathering will be held from 7 p.m. to 8:30 pm. at The Plate, 587 New Haven Ave., Milford, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Heck, Benjamin

Beloved husband of Joan, children Christine, Andrew (and wife Diane), Benjamin (and wife Lydia), grandchildren Elizabeth (and husband Peter), Michael (and wife Monica), Matthew, Nora, and great-grandchildren Jack, Eliza, and Gabriela.

Born in New York City, grew up and lived in Brooklyn, NY, later moving to Cos Cob and Milford, CT.

Veteran of World War II U.S. Navy Submarine Service, deployed to the U.S.S. Finback (recovering downed future President George H. W. Bush).

Ben was a Plant Operations Manager, designing numerous packaging machines. After retiring, he started a successful home improvement business as a second career.

Ben was a passionate sports and hobby enthusiast to say the least! Depending on the stage of his life, there was a hobby to keep him busy. His hobbies included golf, boating, photography, woodworking, learning a foreign language in his 60’s, traveling through Europe, and being an opera enthusiast. He also mastered the iPhone in his 90’s and golfed until 96. More than anything, he loved to share these pastimes with his beautiful wife Joan and his family! It’s easy to say that he lived life to the fullest.

He was always there for his family and friends. He will be missed by all, but forever remain a presence in our lives.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, December 4, 2021 at 11 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf Street, Milford, CT 06460. Military Honors will take place at the conclusion of mass. Ben will be buried at sea by the U.S. Navy following services.

The family kindly requests any donations in memory of Ben be made to:
The Connecticut Hospice
100 Double Beach Road
Branford, CT 06405

Heid, Robert

Robert “Bob” T. Heid, 91 of Milford, beloved husband of the late Barbara Heid, passed away on November 21, 2021 at his home. Born on August 27, 1930 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Arthur and Agnes Heid, and the loving brother of the late Arthur J. Heid. He will be sorely missed by family and friends, including his new friends at the American Legion Post #196. Survivors include his children Diana Aquilino (Larry) of Milford, Barbara Lee Heid (David Considine) of Branford, Robert A. Heid (Sueann) of Owensboro, KY, and Debbi Mike of Florida; grandchildren Amy Aquilino-Weymer (Robert) of Milford, Reean T. Inderdohnen (Mark) of Monroe, Derek R. Heid (Kate) and Dylan T. Heid of Owensboro, KY; great-grandchildren Robert “Ike” Heid Weymer, Nathan Weymer, Thomas Gotlowski, and Samuel Inderdohnen; nephew Gary Heid, Sr. (Sandy) of Monroe, nieces Gail Pecora (Michael) of Florida, and Lisa Webb (Steve) of Naugatuck; great-nephews Gary Heid, Jr. of Monroe, his children Jaxon and Cameron, Peter Pecora (Kirsten) of Maryland and their daughter, Emma, Stephen Webb of Naugatuck, and Alex Webb of Naugatuck; and great-nieces Stefanie Moran (Greg) of Monroe, and Jessica Duran (Matthew) of Maryland, and their children, Griffin and Nora, and Charley Rose Webb of Naugatuck.

It’s hard to wrap up the life of Bob Heid. As anyone would say, “91 years is a good run” but for Bob, it was a great one. Simply put, he was one of the most unique and unforgettable characters any of us have ever known, so an obituary full of platitudes and gracious summations of his life will never suffice.

There are too many stories and memories to count, but the common theme throughout all of them was the revelry amongst good friends and family (usually accompanied by a Dewar’s and water). Bob loved nothing more than to be around his family and reminisce about growing up in Bridgeport while terrorizing the neighborhood with his buddies/accomplices, and brother, Art. The well of Seaside Park stories never ran dry, but he would unfailingly pivot to another rife supply of tales: Korea. At his 91st birthday party this past summer, he was asked, “What would you talk about if you didn’t have Korea??” Well, if documented, there would be volumes of stories of Bob’s service with the 187th Airborne Infantry Regiment “Rakkasans” but none are appropriate for print.

Attempting to encapsulate the adoration Bob had for his late wife, children, grandchildren, nieces, and nephews, is impossible. But, in an effort to reciprocate the love and impact he had on his family, Bob’s first great-grandchild was named in his honor in 2013.

Bob was many things to many people, but above all he was brave. From jumping out of airplanes in the Army in Korea, pushing forward after the death of the love of his life, teaching one generation of kids to the next how to drive (a stick-shift nonetheless), traveling anywhere at a moment’s behest, and ultimately moving back to Milford for one last go, he did it all fearlessly.

We can only hope that Bob’s signature good-bye is a promise, and that at some point, we will see him one of these days.

Family and friends may call on Saturday, November 27, 2021 from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A graveside service with Military Honors will follow at Kings Highway Cemetery, 271 Cherry St., Milford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project https://support.woundedwarriorproject.org/donate. To leave online condolences, please visit our website at www.codywhitefuneralservice.com.

Hemming, Dorothy

Dorothy Hemming, 102, of Milford, loving wife for 72 years to the late Howard Hemming, passed away peacefully on November 22, 2021. Dorothy was born on September 11, 1919 to the late George D. and Grace Gallager Hall.

Dorothy was employed as an administrator assistant at Page Motor Company and the City of Milford. During WWII, Dorothy was active as an Air Raid Warden. Later on, Dorothy was involved at Day Prospect School for Girls in New Haven where her daughters attended.

Dorothy leaves behind her daughters, Gail K. Battista and Sherry Rogers and granddaughter, Tracy L. Stover. In addition to her husband, Howard, who passed in 2014, she was predeceased by her granddaughter, Jennifer B. Russo, in 2015.

Per Dorothy’s wishes, all services are private. In lieu of flowers, anyone wishing may contribute to the Connecticut Humane Society.

Hersey, Philip J.

Philip J. Hersey, 93, of Caribou, Maine, beloved partner of Joanne Wade, entered eternal rest on November 16th, 2021. Born on November 4th, 1927, he was the son of the late Bert and Olive (Norsworthy) Hersey.

Philip was born and raised in Caribou Maine, part of a large and happy family.  He went on to attend the University of Maine before being drafted into the US Army in November of 1950.  He served his country in the Korean War before being honorably discharged in 1952.  He worked for several years in New York City before meeting his wife Lucille.  They settled in Milford, CT and were blessed with their greatest gift in the birth of their son Philip.

Philip worked for the Bradlees Department Store for many years, eventually retiring as a retail manager.  He always approached his work believing he would never ask someone to do a job he was unwilling to do himself.  Following the tragic loss of Lucille, Philip retired and followed his heart opening his own business, A Touch of Class, at Captains Cove Seaport in Bridgeport.  His kind heart and easy-going personality made making new friends very easy.

Years later, Philip found love again with Joanne while following their shared passion for country line dancing.  They spent many years together sharing friendship, laughter and many adventures with their family and friends.  Above all, Phil lived a life as sweet as the chocolate he enjoyed and was blessed with the loyal friendship and support of the many people who have been lucky enough to have known him.

Philip is survived by his loving partner of nearly thirty years of Joanne Wade, her son Christopher Wade, daughter Kelly (Wade) Bettuchi (Husband Michael), and two granddaughters Lauren and Nicole who he took great pride in, as well as several nieces and nephews who he adored.

He was predeceased by his devoted wife Lucille (Ferrucci) Hersey and his cherished son Philip J. Hersey as well as his beloved sisters and brothers Pearl Staples (Bill), Barbara Wardell (DJ), Helen McGilvary (John), Audrey Chaney (Kip), Donald Hersey (Katherine), Merle Hersey (Margaret), Lendal Hersey (Mary).

Family and friends are invited to call on Saturday, December 4, 2021 from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Military Honors will commence at 11:30 a.m. at the Funeral Home. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Pl., Memphis, TN 38105.

Jorge, Celia M.

We regretfully announce the passing of Celia Monteiro Jorge formerly of Orange, Connecticut on November 27, 2021. Celia was surrounded by her family and passed away peacefully. Our mother, Celia, was one of the strongest, dedicated, selfless and loving women to ever walk this earth and our family was blessed to have her as the head of the family. Born in Rio de Janeiro Brazil, Celia moved to Portugal where she met the love of her life, her spouse, Germano Jorge. Together they traveled to live in Africa and later settled in the United States to raise their family. Celia was a wonderful and loving mother who gave her all to her family. We will never be able to fill the space left behind by her. Celia was predeceased by her parents, João and Mariana Alves, her loving husband of more than 50 years, Germano Jorge, and her two brothers, Flavio Alves and Jose Alves. She is survived by her three children, João Duarte Jorge and his wife Maria (Gina) Jorge, Richard Alves Jorge and his wife Terri Ann Jorge, and Anabela Nowlin, her brother Augusto Alves, her eight grandchildren- Shaun Paikai, Scott Paikai, Jessica Jorge Nichols, Kristina Jorge Horblitt, Jennifer Jorge Kyer, Kaitlyn Jorge Czepiga, Stephanie Jorge Tomerlin and John Camara Jorge. Also, her thirteen great-grandchildren as well as several nieces and nephews. Special Thanks to the Willows of Woodbridge staff and Compasses Hospice for your loving care and support provided to Celia and her family. Friends may call on Friday, December 3, 2021 from 10:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. at Keenan Funeral Home on 238 Elm Street, West Haven, CT 06516. Masks are required for attendance. Following calling hours there will be a Mass of Christian Burial at Holy Infant Church on 450 Racebrook Road in Orange CT. at 12:00 p.m. Burial will follow at St. Lawrence Cemetery, 280 Derby Avenue, West Haven. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Celia Jorge’s memory to: Residential Counsel Fund, The Willows, 225 Amity Road, Woodbridge. To leave an online condolence or tribute, please visit www.keenanfuneralhome.com.

Kirmaier, Paul Michael

Paul Michael Kirmaier, age 28, of Milford, entered peaceful rest on Nov. 14, 2021, at Yale New Haven Hospital after a brief illness.

He was born on Dec. 6, 1992, in New Haven and was the son of the late Michael Paul and Colleen (Corarito) Kirmaier. He graduated from Foran High School in 2010 and continued his education at UConn. Paul was a free spirit and enjoyed life while listening to music including the Dave Matthews Band and Lotus. Paul enjoyed fishing and being by the water. He was an avid sports fan, especially hockey.

Paul is survived by his devoted family, his grandmother, Anne Kirmaier, His uncles, Raymond and William Kirmaier, his aunt, Susan Kirmaier, his uncle, Dan Sage and his cousins, Stephanie, Kathryn, Ryan, and Olivia Sage. He also leaves many more extended family and friends, and his beloved pets, Lou, and Ludwig. Paul is predeceased by his grandfather, Siegfried Kirmaier.

Calling Hours will be held on Thursday, Nov. 18th from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Regardless of vaccination status, masks are required. Interment will be private.

Koseski, Judith Ann

Judith Ann Koseski, an 80 year old Woodbridge resident and beloved wife to Skip Koseski, passed away at home surrounded by her family on Nov. 30. She was born June 12, 1941 in Colchester, VT, daughter of the late James and Elizabeth Miller Pecor. Judith was a licensed travel agent, loved country music, and traveling across the United States on motorcycle with her husband and The Blue Knights. She was predeceased by her sister Jacqueline Coyle. In addition to her husband, she leaves her son Michael Koseski (Annette) of Milford, daughter Laura Natale (Al) of Harwinton, brother Terry Pecor of CA, sister Penny Mueller of NJ and two grandchildren Nico DelGiudice & Leanna Natale. Friends may call on Friday from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at The Jenkins King & Malerba Funeral Home, 12 Franklin St. Ansonia. Funeral services will at held at the funeral home on Saturday, Dec. 4 at 9:30 a.m. Burial will follow in Northwest Cemetery in Woodbridge.

Kranyak, Charles “Chick”

Charles “Chick” Kranyak, age 77, beloved husband of Beverly Dearborn Kranyak of Milford, entered peaceful rest on Nov. 26, 2021.

Chick was born on May 23, 1944, in Bridgeport and was the son of the late Michael and Adele (Stackiokas) Kranyak. He was a tile setter by trade and worked for Home Depot.

In addition to his devoted wife, Chick leaves his loving children, Charles “Chick” Kranyak, NHFD Ret., of Cheshire, Krista Kranyak-Chalfin (Robin) of Boston, MA, Robert Reardon, Jr. (Robin) of Ansonia, Rhonda Stockmal (Frank) of Milford, Wendy Lambriase (Chris) of Milford, eleven grandchildren, Morgan, Reagan, & Logan Kranyak, Ella & Aria Chalfin, Robert and Joseph Reardon, Katie & Frank Stockmal, Samantha & Christopher Lambiase. Chick also leaves his four siblings, Michael Kranyak of Stratford, Nancy Barnick of Milford, Jim Kranyak of Milford and Jack Kranyak of New Haven and several nieces and nephews. His brother-in-law, Chester Barnick and sister-in-law, Mary Wright Kranyak predeceased him.

Family and friends may call on Friday, Dec. 3rd, 2021, from 10:00 to 11:00 a.m. followed by a funeral service at 11:00 a.m. at THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD. Interment to follow at St. Mary Cemetery, Milford.

Lloyd, Catherine

Catherine “Katie” Lloyd, 94 of Woodbridge, Connecticut passed away on December 2, 2021. Born February 4, 1927 to the late Gregory Lopes and Rose Robinson-Lopes, Catherine grew up in New Haven, Connecticut.

A celebration of Catherine’s life will be held on Saturday, December 11, 2021 from 2-4 p.m. at Colonial Funerals, 86 Circular Avenue, Hamden. For full obituary and to leaves condolences visit Colonialfunerals.com.

 

Nelson, Mary Finn

Mary Finn Nelson, West Haven, beloved wife of the late John T. Nelson Jr. passed away November 15, 2021 at home surrounded by her family. Formerly of Milford, Mary was born in Boston, MA on April 11, 1925 to the late Chester and Florence Finn. She was educated at St. Thomas School and the Hickox School in Boston. Mary is survived by her son Richard Nelson and his wife Jennifer of Orange and their children Coleman, Jacqueline and Audrey; daughter Nancie Brunt and husband Edmond of Madison and their children Daniel (Dana) Mairin (Braden) Chagnon and Lauren; Daughter Sally Nelson of West Haven and son Tommy with whom she lived. Mary retired from the Board of Education in Milford and worked for many years as a secretary at Jonathan Law High School. She was twice past president of St. Mary’s Guild and a member of Milford Council of Catholic Women. She was a member of the Milford Hospital Auxiliary and volunteered for over 40 years. She enjoyed playing bridge and golf, traveling, reading and enjoying the beautiful beaches of Milford and West Haven. Mary loved beautiful cars, especially her last car, a white convertible! But most of all, she loved her family, spending time with her children and grandchildren, enjoying holidays and laughter, seeing them grow and making her immensely proud of who they each have become. She was delighted to meet her great-granddaughter Linden Mary. Mary is also survived by her brother Michael Finn of Boston, four nephews and one niece. She is pre-deceased by a son, J. Thomas Nelson III, her sister, Isabella Horan and sister-in-law Margaret Hewitt. Memorial contributions in her memory may be made to Connecticut Hospice.

Friends and family may call from 9 a.m. to 10 a.m. on Thursday, November 18, 2021 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow at 11:00 a.m. on Thursday, November 18, 2021 at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf St., Milford, CT. Interment will take place at Saint Mary Cemetery, Buckingham Ave., Milford, CT.

Orban, Alex

Alex Orban, 82, of Milford, CT, beloved husband of Betty Orban, passed away peacefully on December 2nd, 2021 after a long battle with Cancer. Born on August 25th, 1939 in Budapest, Hungary, he was the son of the late Sandor Orban and Marie Szabo. As a teenager, Alex moved to the United States and joined the military. After his service, Alex went on to be a 5-time National Fencing Champion and competed in the Summer Olympics of ’68, ’72 & ’76. He then began a 40 year career at Mercedes-Benz of Fairfield. Alex was very passionate about his profession, he continued working well into retirement age and was adored by all of his colleagues.

He was known for his warm, loving personality, constant smile, easy going demeanor, and positive energy. Alex was a devoted family man. He loved taking his family on vacation and being involved in his childrens’ sports. After work you could see him cooking Hungarian food with his wife while tennis or football played on the kitchen TV. He also enjoyed playing poker with his boys and was very fond of Spanish music.

Alex is survived by his wife Betty, his five children, Alex, Brendan, Bradley, Alexandra & Sean. As well as his seven grandchildren, Rebecca, Sarah, Julia, George-Andrew, Arianna, Arius & Emerson. Alex is predeceased by his sister Marie.

Friends and family may call from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. on Saturday, December 11, 2021 at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT.

Plaskowitz, George “Robby” III

George “Robby” Plaskowitz, III, 35, passed away suddenly in Hadley, MA on Wednesday November 3, 2021. Born on August 2, 1986, in Milford, CT, he was the beloved son of George and Lynn Plaskowitz. Raised in Orange, CT, Robby graduated from Amity High School where he spent many of his best days out on the football field. Since the age of 2, he worked alongside his father in his construction business; A business that provided him the opportunity to master the art of operating heavy duty, earth moving construction equipment. He was known to many as one of the most gifted machine operators in the craft. As a past member of the Local Union 478, he obtained his crane license where he worked and operated cranes for a short time. During most holidays you could always find Robby cooking in the kitchen alongside his mom. Mashed potatoes were his specialty. At the time of his death, he was a devoted foreman at Four Seasons Property Maintenance in Hadley, Ma. where he worked with and for his close friend Matt Ozlewski. Robby will be sorely missed everyday by his father, mother and siblings, Jamie, Anna Saldamarco, Stacy Plakias (Greg); Lisa Julianelle (Rob); Laura (Paul); Jason, Brett and his nieces Braelyn, Fiona and Felicity; as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins. We know Robby is now with his grandparents, George and Mary Plaskowitz, Ken (Poppy) and Josephine (Nana) Davis; and his brother-in-law, James Saldamarco. He will always be loved both here and in heaven. Robby will forever be remembered for his kind heart, quick wit, love for country music and unwavering devotion to the Dallas Cowboys.

A mass of Christian Burial will be held at Holy Infant Church, 450 Racebrook Rd,Orange on Wednesday November 10th at 1:30pm. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Shatterproof.org; a non-profit organization dedicated to ending the addiction crisis in the United States. www.northhavenfuneral.com.

Pocevic, Raymond

Raymond Paul Pocevic, age 72, of Orange passed away at home on Saturday, November 20, 2021, surrounded by his loving family. Ray was born March 25, 1949, in Bridgeport, son of the late Gustave and Roberta (Maloney) Pocevic and had been a lifelong area resident. He graduated from Milford High School and worked very hard at everything he did until he retired. He was a United States Army Veteran and he served in the Vietnam War. Ray was the owner and operator of A-1 Cleaning Service for over 40 years. Ray was a loving husband, the best father, a caring brother, an amazing uncle, and a great friend. Ray enjoyed coaching Little League, pitching in softball games, playing cards and games with his friends and family, and of course cheering on the New York Yankees. Ray is survived by his loving wife, Judy (Swift) Pocevic of 50 years. In addition he is survived by his adoring daughter, Shannon (Pocevic) Saleski and her husband Steven of Orange; a sister, Roberta Pocevic of Durham and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his siblings, Minnie Coretti Gustave, Robert, Vincent, Arthur and Ronald Pocevic. Calling Hours will be Wednesday, November 24, 2021 from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. in the William R. McDonald Funeral Home, 2591 Main St., Stratford, CT. A celebration of his life will follow at 5:00 p.m. with full Military Honors. For additional information or to share a message of condolence, please visit www.wrmcdonaldfuneralhome.com.

Provo, John Francis Sr.

John Francis Provo, Sr. age 72 beloved husband of 46 years to Annette (Barrette) Provo of West Haven and formerly of Milford, entered peaceful rest on December 3, 2021.

He was born on November 21, 1949, in Rutland, VT and was the son of the late Perley and Shirley (Ryan) Provo. Mr. Provo worked for the Milford Housing Authority for over 20 years before his retirement. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus, Tinto 47, Milford.

In addition to his devoted wife, John leaves his loving children, Serena Buffum and her husband William of West Haven, Jennifer Provo of Milford and John Provo, Jr., and his wife Christina of West Haven and his seven grandchildren, who referred to his as “Papa” Crystal, Matthew, Jayden, Joshua, Christian, Ashlynn and Annabella. He also leaves his brother Robert Provo and his wife Sherry of Florida and was predeceased by three brothers, Perley, Dickie and Peter.

A Gathering of Family and Friends will be held on Thursday, December 9th from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at the GREGOY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE, MILFORD.

Regan, Elizabeth “Betty”

Elizabeth “Betty” A. Regan, 91, passed away on Nov. 28, 2021. Born in Quincy, MA on August 2, 1930, she was a daughter of the late Arthur M. and Olga J. (Erickson) Regan. Betty is survived by her brother Charles A. Regan of NYC; nieces Tracy Stewart, Wendy Lewis, and Laurie Smith; and nephew William C. Colrus. She was predeceased by her sister Constance Agnes Colrus. A graduate of St. Mary’s Church Grammar School, Betty was a resident of Newhallville and Hamden most of her life. She was a longtime employee of Southern New England Telephone Co. and a member of the Telephone Pioneers of America. Known as “Betty Boop”, she was always active in local Irish Clubs.

Friends may attend her Graveside Ceremony on Friday, Dec. 3rd at 2:00 p.m. in All Saints Cemetery, Section 14, 700 Middletown Ave., North Haven. To send a condolence to her family, please see: www.beecherandbennett.com.

Roman, Elizabeth

Elizabeth Roman, 94, previously of Arizona and California, passed away on November 24, 2021. Born on July 10, 1927 in Milford, CT, she was the daughter of the late Michael and Susanna (Lesh) Roman.

Elizabeth is survived by her siblings, Richard (Phyllis) Roman and Bernice Scoville, and many nieces, nephews, and great nieces and great nephews. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her siblings, Michael Roman and Dorothy Norko.

All services will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to a charity of choice.

Salito, Philip M.

Philip M. Salito, age 62, of Milford, beloved husband of Kellie Harcherik Salito entered eternal peace on December 2, 2021. Philip was born in Milford on March 13, 1959, to Genevieve Lasse and the late Ralph Salito. A lifelong resident of Milford, he attended Saint Gabriel Elementary School and graduated from Jonathan Law High School. After high school, Philip founded the iconic Milford breakfast restaurant, Little Lasse’s on Naugatuck Ave, where he served as owner and head chef to his dedicated following for thirty-seven years. Philip loved his business, cooking for others, and absolutely adored his patrons. Along with his home, Little Lasse’s was his happy place. He was incredibly hard working, always putting his family first. Philip was witty, generous, and kind. He had an engaging smile and an infectious laugh. He possessed a philanthropic spirit and was always quietly giving to and helping others. He loved being on the golf course, especially when hitting the links with his cherished brothers. He will be incredibly missed by all who knew and loved him, and by his treasured patrons of 37 years. Along with his loving wife Kellie, and his mother Genevieve, Philip is survived by his devoted stepdaughter, Alexandria Ponzio (Salvatore), adored grandson Chase Ponzio, his brother Ralph Salito (Beth) his nieces, Kendra and Hailey, nephew Matthew (Meaghan) and great niece Keira, and numerous cousins, friends, and customers, who were family to him. Philip was predeceased by his father Ralph Salito and his brother, Jeffrey Salito. Family and Friends are invited to pay their respects at a Walk-Through on Wednesday, December 8, 2021, from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at the GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 BRIDGEPORT AVENUE. Masks are required in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, make a donation of your choice in Philip’s memory.

Schulte, Christopher Eliot

Christopher Eliot Schulte, age 59, of Milford, Connecticut, passed away November 13, 2021, at Yale New Haven Hospital, from complications of advanced liver disease. Chris was born on April 2, 1962 in Yale New Haven Hospital. He attended Milford Public Schools, graduating from Jonathan Law High School in 1980 and earned a bachelor’s degree in communications from the University of Idaho in 1987. Chris engaged in a lifetime passion for sports both as a student athlete at the high school and university levels, and as a sportswriter and editor at various newspapers for 30 years. He was preceded in death by his mother, Dorothy Ann Kelley Schulte. He is survived by his father, Linwood Schulte, siblings: LynnAnne Eddington, Woody, Jimmy, Paul and Scott Schulte, sons: Carter and Eliot Schulte, daughter: Paige Schulte and three grandchildren. A Memorial service will be held on Saturday, November 20th at 10:00 a.m. at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, located at 990 Racebrook Road, Woodbridge, Connecticut 06525-2543.

Schwarzenberg, Judith Ann

Judith Ann Schwarzenberg, age 82, of Derby, found her way home on November 24, 2021 after a long and brave battle with Alzheimer’s disease. With her winning smile and gentle, nurturing soul, she was a beautiful, bright spot in the lives of so many loved ones.

Judy was born in Milford on March 6, 1939, and was the daughter of the late Raymond and Viola (Porter) Symanski. Her parents owned and operated the Hometown Bakery at Walnut Beach, where the family all contributed to the success of the business. After graduating from Milford High School in 1957, Judy went on to earn a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from Southern Connecticut State College (now SCSU) in 1961.
After college, Judy began teaching kindergarten at Devon Grammar School and as a young teacher she met the love of her life, the late Richard Schwarzenberg of Stratford. They were engaged in 1962 and were married on July 6, 1963. Judy and Rick were married for 55 years until his death on May 23, 2019. Throughout the years they supported and loved one another through all the difficult times, and found pure joy in sharing the good times with their children, family and friends.

Judy was the beloved mother of Lynne Ann Schwarzenberg and her husband John Feddern of Ansonia. As the consummate mother figure, she taught her daughter how to love unconditionally, to put the needs of others first and to do everything possible to make the world a better place.

Judy’s brothers and sisters were also her closest friends. Throughout the years, they celebrated together and maintained the bonds of family. She is survived by her sister Virginia Lee Ross, sister Janet Ireland and her husband Bob, her brother Roy Symanski and her brother Walter “Buck” Symanski and his wife Judy. She was predeceased by her brother-in-law, Al Ross and her eldest brother Alan Symanski, but is survived by his wife and her close friend, Mary. In addition to her brothers and sisters, Judy is survived by her lifelong best friend Mia DiStasi, who was like a sister to her for over 60 years.

Judy loved spending time with her granddaughters, and is survived by
Chelsea Minopoli and her husband Carlo, Jocelyn Davelaar and her husband Austen, and Madeleine Feddern and her boyfriend Colin Hyde. Her great-grandchildren are Laila And Knox Minopoli and Bailee Signore. She is also survived by several dear nieces, nephews and cousins.

We welcome everyone whose life was touched by Judy’s love and endless compassion to join us at her memorial service at 12 Noon on Friday, December 10 at Riverview Funeral Home, 390 River Road, Shelton, CT. Friends may call on Friday from 11:30 am until time of service. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations should be made to TEAM, Inc., Elderly Services Department, 30 Elizabeth Street, Derby, CT 06418.

Friends may leave condolences at www.riverviewfh.com.

Simek, John Michael

John Michael Simek, age 71, of Milford, CT passed away December 6, 2021 in his home. He was born in Bridgeport, CT to the late John and Shirley Simek. He was a general foreman for Bridgeport Brass Company for many years before working in Quality Control at Bullards Machines. John loved to fix things and excelled in carpentry. He enjoyed riding his motorcycle with his longtime partner Donna Louis and their friends and family members. He also enjoyed going to car shows and races. He will be greatly missed.

In addition to Donna he is survived by his brother Joseph and his wife Deborah, his three nieces and nephews, Ryan Simek and Jill, Troy Simek and Kathleen Palmer and Sean and Ciara Miller-Jones, three grand nieces and nephews Bronson Arlo, Inara Delaynee and Parker; several aunts and uncles including George Sepso.
Friends and family are invited to pay their respects on Sunday, December 12, 2021 from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the Cyril F. Mullins Funeral Home, 399 White Plains Rd. Trumbull, CT.

Masks are required. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Disabled American Veterans Department of Connecticut, 80 Hall Avenue, Suite 801 Meriden, CT 06450 (disabledvetsct.org) For more information or to the leave an online condolence, please visit www.mullinsfh.com.

Smith, Carol

Carol Ann Molloy Smith, 83, of Milford, CT, died peacefully at her home, surrounded by family, on Friday, Nov. 19, 2021.  Born June 24, 1938, in Bridgeport to the late Edward Leo Molloy and Gertrude Jones Molloy, Carol attended Devon Grammar and Milford High School. She enrolled at Saint Joseph’s College from 1956 to 1957, after which she married her former husband, Winthrop Sexton Smith.

She is survived by her five children (Winthrop Sexton Smith Jr., Thaddeus Edward Leo Smith, Ellen Moulton Smith, Daniel Molloy Smith and Hannah Smith Wolfgang), her 11 grandchildren (Catharine Molloy Smith, Hannah Lee Smith, Anna Louise Schmitt, Winthrop Sexton Smith III, Joseph Taylor Schmitt, Ethan Scott Smith, Jacquelyn Carol Smith, Madison Alexis Smith, Eli Washington Smith, River Wolfgang and Harrison Wolfgang) and one great-granddaughter (Cornelia Stefania Smith).

Her career in legal administration spanned four decades at multiple law firms: Berchem and Moses, P.C., in Milford, The Law Offices of Ray Garcia in New Haven and Susman, Duffy and Segaloff, P.C., in New Haven. During her career she also obtained a bachelor of arts degree from Albertus Magnus College in New Haven in 1993.

Carol devoted much of her spare time to Milford civic life. She helped manage political campaigns for her former husband, her son and grandson. She was a leader of the Milford Jaycee Wives, a civic organization for women of local business owners. She also took great pride in the historic character of Milford’s downtown, especially the area’s Colonial and Greek Revival architecture, and in 2000 founded the Milford Historic District No. 2 South of the Green to preserve these endangered buildings. She chaired the District board until 2020.

A committed member of St. Mary’s Church in Milford for most of her life, Carol was ordained as a Eucharistic minister in 2004.

In 2019, the Junior Women’s Club of Milford honored Carol for her devotion to her home city, presenting her with the 23rd Milford Living Treasure Award. Mayor Ben Blake marked the occasion by declaring Nov. 20 as Carol Molloy Smith Day in the City of Milford.

Carol loved spending time with her family, traveling, painting, gardening, reading, playing golf and cooking. She also cherished the Red Sox, the New England Patriots and especially Tom Brady.

Friends and family may call on Monday, November 22nd from 4:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, November 23rd at 11:00 a.m. in St Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), Milford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Autism Speaks. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Spencer, Gwendolyn W.

Gwendolyn W. Spencer, 89, of Bloomfield, CT, beloved widow of Dr. Richard P. Spencer, passed away on December 5, 2021. She is survived by her daughter Carolyn R. Spencer of Bloomfield and six nieces and nephews. In addition to her husband Dick, she was predeceased by her daughters, Jennifer H. Spencer and Priscilla J. Spencer, a brother Perry R. Williams and his wife Anne B. Williams, as well as a sister-in-law Linda Spencer. Gwen, the daughter of Claude G. and Ednah D. Williams, grew up in Garden City, Long Island. On April 7, 1956, she married Dick, her best friend. They settled in Orange, CT where they raised their three daughters. Gwen received a BS in Nursing from Skidmore College in 1954, a Master Gardener’s Certificate from the University of Connecticut, and a Master’s Degree in Early Childhood Education. She spent most of her career as a nursery school teacher at the Orange Congregational Church and then at First Church in West Hartford. Gwen will be remembered for her kindness, beautiful smile, sense of humor, and love of all things bright and beautiful. She and Dick enjoyed going antiquing and traveling around the U.S. and the world. There are no calling hours. A funeral service will take place on Friday, December 10, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. at Asylum Hill Congregational Church, Hartford. Masks are required in Church. It can be livestreamed at: ahcc.org/live-streaming and then by clicking on “Live Stream Access.” In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society of Connecticut or the charity of one’s choice. The family would like to thank the staff on the Cedar Unit of Caleb Hitchcock for their excellent care of Gwen. Molloy Funeral Home of West Hartford has care of arrangements.

Steinbach, John A.

John Anthony Steinbach, age 79, beloved husband of Joanne M. Szamotula Steinbach, died peacefully on November 29, 2021 at Yale New Haven Hospital with his family by his side. Born in Bridgeport on July 9, 1942, he was the son of the late Ruth Greene Steinbach. Mr. Steinbach was raised in Bridgeport and was a proud U.S. Army Veteran. Following his military service, he was employed at Sikorsky Aircraft, where he worked for 42 years, retiring in 2004 as a lead man in experimental development. Mr. Steinbach was an avid fisherman and supported his children in all their sporting endeavors. Together with his wife, he enjoyed 38 cruises around the world and earned the distinction of VIP with Carnival Cruise Lines. In addition to his wife of 38 years, he is survived by his devoted sons, David (Jody) Steinbach of Seymour, Michael (Janet Dawson) Steinbach of HI, John J. Steinbach and Kristofer Marinelli, both of Milford; brothers, Richard and Stanley Steinbach of FL; and cherished grandchildren, Angelina and Sophia Marinelli of Old Saybrook and Rachael and Sarah Steinbach of Seymour. He was predeceased by a brother, David Steinbach. Funeral services with Military Honors, will take place on Friday, December 3, 2021 at 6:30 p.m. in the Wakelee Memorial Funeral Home, 167 Wakelee Avenue, Ansonia. Interment will be private. Family and friends may call at the funeral home on Friday, from 4:00 to 6:30 p.m., prior to the service. Online condolences may be made at www.wakeleememorial.com.

Thompson, Wesley

Wesley Thompson, longtime Milford resident and Darina Place patriarch, passed away at age 94 on November 13, 2021 to finally join his loving wife Mary of 56 years, who has been waiting for him for over a decade. The son of John Wesley and Edith Thompson, he was born on February 24, 1927 in Brooklyn, New York. He leaves his son Jesse and wife Amy Thompson, daughter Amy Thomas and Fiancée Daniel Farrell, his brother Stephen Wesley Thompson and wife Judy Deyoung, and grandsons Andrew Thompson, Christopher and Luke Thomas, along with nieces and nephews from the Mackin and Strater clans. Mr. Thompson, as he was known to most, attended school in Hollis and Jamica, Long Island before moving to Framingham, Massachusetts. He served proudly as a Corpsman in the United States Navy and then moved to Darina Place, falling in love and marrying the beautiful girl next store, Mary Mackin. Settling into the ’31 and setting up his Lionel trains in the spare bedroom, he went to work for the Postal Service for 32 years, providing for his brood and seldom leaving town save for weeks long summer vacations in Ogunquit, Maine with his family and his sister Lois, whom he follows into the after by almost 30 years. After retiring, the old postman continued his route, delivering newsy snippets of interest to many in downtown Milford for decades. It had been “A wonderful life.”

Unger, Roberta “Bobbie”

Roberta “Bobbie” Unger, 78, of Orange, beloved wife of 55 years to Ronald Unger, passed away peacefully on December 10, 2021. Born on May 25, 1943 in Concord, NH, she was the daughter of the late Robert and Doris Stiles.

Bobbie was known throughout her life to be upbeat, generous, confident, and goal oriented. This reflected not only in her career where she was a very successful sales manager but throughout her courageous battles with ovarian cancer which she had beaten twice over the course of 30 years. She had a love for the holidays, especially Christmas and Easter, and spending time with her family and close friends. Above all else, Bobbie was a dedicated and devoted wife, a loving mother, and doting grandmother.

Along with her husband, Bobbie leaves behind her son, Eric Unger; grandchildren, Jonathan and Jamie Unger; sisters, Jeanne Trulove, Deborah Perkins, Sherry Perry, and Suzanne Stiles-Jean; and extended family and friends. She was predeceased by her son, Robert “Jay” Unger.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Wednesday, December 15, 2021 at 11 a.m. with a funeral service to begin at 12 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. Interment will follow at Orange Center Cemetery, Orange Center Road, Orange.

Wegrzyn, Remedios

Remedios Wegrzyn, age 71, of Orange, beloved wife of the late Richard Wegrzyn Sr., passed away on Thursday, November 18, 2021, surrounded by her family.  Remedios was born in the Philippines on August 15, 1950, to the late Roman and Rosalind Buenabili Millares.  Remedios was a cook at Friendly’s Restaurant for many years and later at Thule in Seymour where she worked on the assembly line. She will be dearly missed by her family and friends. Survivors include her children: Richard Wegrzyn Jr. and his wife Jennifer of Stratford, Remy Wegrzyn and her fiancée Ray Jelliffe of Milford, and Randy Jay Wegrzyn of Stratford, eight grandchildren; David (Nicole), Tyler and Jayden, Amanda, Krystal and Jeffrey and Randy Jr., and Samantha and three great-grandchildren, Amelia, Payton and Preston.  Friends and family may call on Friday, November 26th from 5:00 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. in THE GREGORY F. DOYLE FUNERAL HOME, 291 Bridgeport Avenue, Milford.  Interment will be private. To leave an online condolence, please visit, www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.

Wosleger, Gayle Rita

Gayle Rita Wosleger, age 80, died on Wednesday November 10th 2021. Gayle was born in Queens, NY on June 2, 1941 to the late Luis and Florence Ludlum Bossardet.  Gayle worked as a paraprofessional at the Newfield Elementary School in Stamford for over 30 years. She was an active member of the Irish Heritage Society of Milford and the YMCA and loved animals. She enjoyed spending time at the senior center with friends and most of all, enjoyed visits and vacations with her children and grandchildren.  Survivors include her children: Scott Wosleger and his wife Laurie of East Hampton, CT, Jeffrey Wosleger and his wife Patricia of Oceanport, NJ, and Jennifer Stebbins of Milford, seven grandchildren: Tyler and his wife Kelly, Austin and Owen Wosleger, Jake and Sean Wosleger and Hunter and Walker Stebbins. Gayle is predeceased by her brother, Gary Bossardet.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, November 20th at 11:00 a.m. in Saint Ann Church (Saint Raphael Parish), 501 Naugatuck Avenue, Milford. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the St Jude Children’s Research Hospital. To share a memory, please go to www.gregoryfdoylefuneralhome.com.
Zimbardi, Mary

Mary Zimbardi 80, of Woodbridge passed away on December 1, 2021 in Yale New Haven Hospital. Loving mother of Dawn (JR) Rivellini and Tara Aksoy all of Bethany. Beloved grandmother of A. Louis and Dominic T. Rivellini and Tess and Tyson Aksoy. Sister of Madeline Zimbardi and Josephine DelVecchio. Mary was born in New Haven on July 8, 1941 daughter of the late Ralph and Angelina Carrubba Zimbardi. Prior to her retirement Mary was a cook for the New Haven Board of Education.

Family and friends are invited to a parlor service in the PORTO FUNERAL HOME 830 Jones Hill Rd. West Haven WEDNESDAY morning at 11:00. Interment will be private. Family and friends may call WEDNESDAY morning from 9:00 until time of service. Sign Mary’s guest book online at www.portofuneralhomes.net.